Emotional Bank....

Love has deposits and withdrawals...debits and credits. That's what love is like according to someone whom I once thought would think that love is unconditional.

It's interesting to note that both N and I find that in some instances, the libidos tend to reduce with age. Yeah we had a long talk about it last night...and I always thought that women in their 30s were at their sexual peaks...

Aparently not. It's a biological phenomenon I tell ya.

Yeah, of course there are those who will argue that there are marriage vows to be made. But have you ever thought about it? Marriage vows NEVER EVER have this sentence "Will you take this man/woman to be your one and only mate till death do you part?" no. Instead, it goes, "Do you (blah blah name), take this woman to be your lawfully wedded wife, to love and to cherish, in sickness and in health, through good times and bad, till death do you part".

From http://reference.com -

mar·riage
Pronunciation: 'mar-ij
Function: noun
1 : the state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or wife in a legal, consensual, and contractual relationship recognized and sanctioned by and dissolvable only by law —see also DIVORCE
2 : the ceremony containing certain legal formalities by which a marriage relationship is created

Wow...it's interesting that Marriage is nothing but a "legal, consensual, and contractual relationship recognized and sanctioned by and dissolvable only by law"

Well, for those to believe that marriage is a sanctity of true love, it's just gonna shatter your thoughts that it's only a legal term and yes, it can be either dissolved or nullified. In all fairness, it takes two hands to clap as they always say.

If one doesn't feel the love, one looks elsewhere for it. Where does the blame lie? Both parties. Plain and simple. It's cause and effect and nobody escapes from it. Why do I say that, if love is felt whenever, whereever, then there is no need to look elsewhere for it.